Helping men heal, so homes and communities can too.

Holding it together isn't the same as being whole. Let's get whole.

Why I do this

Before I could walk with any man toward wholeness, I had to admit I wasn't whole myself. I stood over my cousin's casket, a man I admired, gone far too soon. I watched someone I love marry someone else and knew something in me had to change. And on December 17, 2017, I lost Ira Otis Grady Jr., my fraternity brother and the first person I met at Fayetteville State. Those moments taught me that holding it together was costing me everything. So now I walk with men, not ahead of them, because we get whole together.

Where are you on the road to whole?

Five quick questions. No wrong answers. I'll point you to the right next step.

  • Brother Strong

    A movement celebrating Black men across self, family, and community. I am, YOU are, WE are... BrotherStrong!

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  • The books

    Honest words for the journey. Love Letters To My Son and To All the Girls I Loved Before God.

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  • AsONE

    A faith-based fellowship bringing our communities together through prayer walks and gatherings. Everyone is welcome.

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Honest words for the journey

"Love Letters to My Son"

"Love Letters to My Son: Navigating Love Without the Proper Example From Me" is a heartfelt exploration of a father's journey in imparting wisdom on love to his son despite personal challenges. Through a series of poignant letters, the author grapples with his own shortcomings, offering insights, lessons, and the enduring power of love to guide his son through the complexities of relationships and self-discovery."

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This book is the manhood manual we all wished we had. “Love Letters to My Son” is more than a book it’s a revelation and a bridge that transports the timeless wisdom of previous generations of men into a current dispensation. 

R.C. Blakes, Jr.

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Speaking

Men's empowerment. The whole man. Healthy relationships. Fatherhood and legacy. I speak to churches, civic groups, men's ministries, and conferences.

Come together, AsONE

A faith-based fellowship I founded to bring our communities together. Through prayer walks and gatherings, people of every background stand side by side for the healing of our cities. Everyone is welcome.